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"GOING THE DISTANCE"
(2010) (Drew Barrymore, Justin Long) (R)

Alcohol/
Drugs
Blood/Gore Disrespectful/
Bad Attitude
Frightening/
Tense Scenes
Guns/
Weapons
Extreme Moderate Heavy None Minor
Imitative
Behavior
Jump
Scenes
Music
(Scary/Tense)
Music
(Inappropriate)
Profanity
Heavy None None None Extreme
Sex/
Nudity
Smoking Tense Family
Scenes
Topics To
Talk About
Violence
Extreme None None Heavy Minor


QUICK TAKE:
Romantic Comedy: Following a one-night stand, a couple ends up falling in love in New York, but after six weeks together must contend with being in a long-distance relationship when the woman moves back to San Francisco to finish graduate school.
PLOT:
Erin (DREW BARRYMORE) is a 31-year-old intern at the New York Sentinel where she hopes one day to work as a real and full-time reporter. Garrett (JUSTIN LONG) works at a New York based record label where he's stuck handling boy bands rather than bringing true talent to the forefront of the music scene. The two meet one night at a bar where he's out drinking with his roommate, Dan (CHARLIE DAY), and their friend, Box (JASON SUDEIKIS), who are consoling him over his recent break-up with his girlfriend.

Garrett and Erin immediately hit it off and, following sleeping together, agree to keep their relationship casual. That's not only because he just got out of one, but also because she's moving back to San Francisco in 6 weeks to live with her sister, Corinne (CHRISTINA APPLEGATE), and her husband, Phil (JIM GAFFIGAN), while finishing her last year of graduate school at Stanford.

Yet, as those weeks pass, the two end up falling in love and decide to continue dating, albeit in a long-distance relationship. But they quickly discover that phone calls, text messages and occasional visits in person are poor substitutes for the real and consistent thing. Throw in the fact that Garrett finds himself jealous of Damon (OLIVER JACKSON-COHEN), the handsome bartender at the restaurant where Erin works, and she becomes suspicious of Garrett's attractive coworker, Brianna (KELLI GARNER), and the couple realizes they're going to have a hard time dating from across the country.

WILL KIDS WANT TO SEE IT?
If they're fans of Barrymore, Long, romantic comedies or Judd Apatow type comedies, they might be interested.
WHY THE MPAA RATED IT: R
For sexual content including dialogue, language throughout, some drug use and brief nudity.
CAST AS ROLE MODELS:
  • DREW BARRYMORE plays a 31-year-old intern at a New York City newspaper who wants to turn that into a full-time gig, but ends up returning to San Francisco to live with her sister and attend her final year of grad school. With only 6 weeks to go, she isn't looking for any sort of romantic relationship, but unintentionally ends up falling into one after having a one-night stand with Garrett and then spending that last month and a half dating him. After that, she must contend with them trying to carry on a long-distance, cross-country relationship. She uses strong profanity, drinks (including to the point of intoxication), and briefly smokes pot with Garrett.
  • JUSTIN LONG plays her boyfriend, a record label employee who's had a hard time fully committing to any of his girlfriends, but seems to have turned the corner when he meets, beds, spends time with and then eventually falls for Erin. He's also frustrated by the long distance relationship, uses some profanity, drinks and briefly smokes pot.
  • CHRISTINA APPLEGATE plays Erin's married sister who isn't so sure of her sibling trying to carry on a long-distance relationship, and isn't crazy about Garrett after finding him having sex with Erin on the dining room table (being a germaphobe, that grosses her out to no end). She drinks and uses profanity.
  • CHARLIE DAY plays Garrett's roommate, a sensitive guy who tries to give Garrett helpful advice, but is just as likely to listen to his conversations and lovemaking through their thin apartment walls. He drinks and uses profanity.
  • JASON SUDEIKIS plays their other friend, who's more of a straight-shooter with Garrett when he's not on the hunt for older women. He drinks and uses profanity.
  • KELLI GARNER plays Garrett's comely coworker who's in her own long-distance relationship but nonetheless draws Erin's jealous eye.
  • OLIVER JACKSON-COHEN plays Erin's roguishly handsome coworker, a bartender who obviously has a thing for her, and thus arouses Garrett's jealousy.
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    OUR WORD TO PARENTS:
    Here's a brief summary of the content found in this R-rated romantic comedy. Profanity consists of at least 61 "f" words, while other expletives and colorful phrases are also uttered. Sexually related dialogue (some of it explicit, including a scene of phone sex) and material are present in various scenes, while there's a fairly graphic encounter (although ultimately played for laughs), other sex, other fooling around and implied sex. Nudity (male bare butt, barely obscured full frontal) is also present.

    Drinking (including intoxication) and brief drug use (pot) occur, as do some thematic elements. Crude humor is present, as are bad attitudes and various instances of potentially imitative behavior.

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    ALCOHOL OR DRUG USE
  • In the opening credits, we see a text message asking about getting a drink.
  • We see wine on the table in front of Garrett and his girlfriend.
  • About being a 31-year-old intern at the paper, Erin says she's going to get wasted and a coworker says she's going with her. We then see them drinking in a bar where Erin holds a beer while others drink, including Garrett, Box and Dan (who have beer). Later, and about standing in front of Erin playing a video game, Garrett apologizes and says he owes her a beer. Erin then has beer with Garrett and his friends, while we see bottles of liquor along the bar wall.
  • Garrett and Erin do several hits from a bong, with Erin even blowing smoke rings with hers.
  • Garrett and Erin have beer.
  • There's a jug of wine on the table in front of Garrett and Erin for a restaurant dinner, with the waiter saying that's all they offer. They both try some, but Erin spits hers out due to the bad taste.
  • Erin's professor mentions an unseen suspect who was heavily intoxicated when he fired a 44 magnum.
  • Erin is given a tray of drinks to deliver in her job as a waitress.
  • We see beer and wine with a dinner meal.
  • About time passing quickly while married and living together, a woman equates that to the same happening when you get drunk.
  • Tasting some cake icing, Garrett mentions that and vodka, saying it's a great chaser.
  • Box and Garrett return to Garrett's place to find Dan sitting on the toilet (nothing seen or heard), with a mention that they have an open door policy. Box is grossed out and refuses to hand Dan the beer he requested and that Garrett sat on the floor several feet away from him. Box says he's not giving him a beer while he's "sh*tting" but Dan says he's pooping right now, so Box knocks the beer over to him. Garrett also has a beer, but elsewhere in their place.
  • Erin downs a drink in one gulp while at work.
  • We see Erin quite intoxicated at a bar, including her throwing darts (in the game) in that state, nearly hitting a man who she then berates in a profanity-filled tirade. Later, she returns home and passes out on Corinne's interior steps.
  • We see Erin in bed by herself, holding a glass of wine, but she then puts that down to have phone sex with Garrett.
  • Garrett has a drink in a bar, followed by a beer and then does shots with a coworker. Dan then walks up and wants Garrett to buy all three of them drinks.
  • Erin and her friends (one of whom appears to be intoxicated) drink in a club where others also drink.
  • About the earlier jug of wine in a restaurant, Garrett jokes that he and Erin can drink jugs of that.
  • Phil has a beer with dinner, while we see bottles of liquor on a side table.
  • Garrett, Box and Dan have pitchers of beer, with Box saying they can get the heavy stuff (liquor) if Garrett wants to "get f*cked up," but Garrett says the beer is fine.
  • About a place Erin is considering renting, Corinne notes stains on the wall and wonders if that's blood. Erin then jokes that it might have something to do with narcotics.
  • Garrett has a beer in a bar where others drink.
  • When Erin asks Corinne if she'll be her date at a concert, Corinne jokes that depends on whether she can get drunk there. Later, we see people drinking there, including Erin and Corinne, and then Garrett.
  • BLOOD/GORE
  • We see Corinne furiously cleaning her dining room table after catching Garrett and Erin having sex there, and she's grossed out when she finds and picks up a pubic hair from the table crack. Even later, a dinner guest picks up a corn cob that rolled across the table and eats from that, disturbing Corinne, followed by more food ending up on the table that a girl picks up. Corinne then grabs and throws that across the room to prevent her from eating it.
  • Box and Garrett return to Garrett's place to find Dan sitting on the toilet (nothing seen or heard), with a mention that they have an open door policy. Box is grossed out, holds his nose, and refuses to hand Dan the beer he requested and that Garrett sat on the floor several feet away from him. Box says he's not giving him a beer while he's "sh*tting" but Dan says he's pooping right now, so Box knocks the beer over to him. Moments later, Dan rolls out a lot of toilet paper and Box wonders what he's doing, but Dan closes the door.
  • The morning after a one-night stand, Garrett's coworker complains that Dan threw up on her (not seen).
  • About a place Erin is considering renting, Corinne notes stains on the wall and wonders if that's blood. Corinne is grossed out and wonders if it's feces, and says another room smells like a skin infection.
  • Corinne complains that a club smells like urine and a hint of "puke."
  • DISRESPECTFUL/BAD ATTITUDE
  • When her coworker points out some younger guys at a bar, Erin says she has no intention of getting date raped (some viewers might not like that half-joke).
  • Phil and another man get on Garrett's case for putting pressure on them to behave romantically around their wives (like Garrett is doing for Erin).
  • About them having a small Christmas tree, Dan complains to Garrett that people will think they're gay.
  • While intoxicated and responding to a man being mad about her nearly hitting him with a dart in a bar, Erin tells him to "suck my d*ck." Damon tries to step in and say she doesn't really have one, but she says she does, repeats that, jokes with the man that they can "jack-off" together to Transformers, and then tells him that steroid use results in a small "d*ck."
  • Corinne warns Garrett that if he breaks Erin's heart she (Corinne) will "cut your balls off."
  • Box has Garrett and Dan join him in crashing a thirtieth graduation anniversary party to try to pick up older women.
  • Some viewers might not like a joke where Dan shows up at a bar with a short mustache that he claims is to look like Charlie Chaplin, but Box and Garrett say makes him look like Hitler. Garrett then points out two older men appearing to be Jews who don't look happy with Dan.
  • FRIGHTENING SCENES
  • None.
  • GUNS/WEAPONS
  • Erin's professor mentions an unseen suspect who was heavily intoxicated when he fired a 44 magnum.
  • IMITATIVE BEHAVIOR
  • Phrases: "F*ck you," "What the f*ck /are you doing?" "F*cker," "How in the f*ck..." "He's a f*cking moron," "You had to come along and f*ck that all up" (said playfully), "F*ck miles, f*ck 'em," "Are you f*cking kidding me?" "It's like a f*cking shar pei," "F*ck-it list," "They're the ones f*cking," "That's the whole f*cking problem," "It f*cking stinks," "Long distance f*cking sucks," "It f*cking sucks," "No, you f*cking idiot," "If you even say Marky Mark, I'll f*cking come," "I want to f*ck you so much," "I love f*cking riding you," "Are they watching us f*cking?" "F*ck the car," "She's out of her f*cking mind," "I'm a f*cking girl," "I'm not f*cking kidding," "If you want to get f*cked up," "F*ck it," "Get the f*ck off me," "Oh sh*t," "Look at this sh*t," "I'm a sh*t," "I feel like sh*t," "All that sh*t," "Holy sh*t," "Sh*t-box," "It's a sh*t-hole," "We do stupid sh*t," "That looks like you're trying to suck your own d*ck," "What a d*ck (move)," "I like all homoerotic fighter pilot movies," "I thought it would be fun if I deejayed your hook-up," "Slutty," "I now know you're a male whore," "She got a nice ass?" "It's like a vagina has you possessed," "Dry humping," "Shut up and lick," "Crack off" (masturbate), "Cougar," "Jizz" (semen), "If you showed your balls," "I'm so horny," "You can suck my d*ck" and "Suck my d*ck, bitch" (said by a drunk woman to a man), "Why don't you try blowing me next time?" "Blue balls," "Veinage," "I'll cut your balls off," "Dumb ass," "Bro," "Dude," "Screwed up," "You suck at everything else," "Shut up," "It sucks," "What the hell does that mean?" "It sucked," "I freaked out," "You're such an asshole," "Bucko," "The real Hell," "It is hard as hell," "Steroid face," "Sweetheart," "A hell of a question," "He's an asshole," "That's one hell of a high score" and "I hated the hell out of my job."
  • Garrett and Erin do several hits from a bong, with Erin even blowing smoke rings with hers.
  • A miscellaneous person has a tattoo.
  • Tired of Garrett always texting Erin, Box takes his phone, puts it on the driving range mat, and then hits it with his golf club (like a golf ball).
  • Corinne routinely yells out "Statue!" to her daughter to make her freeze and stop whatever she's doing.
  • When Erin wakes up from having passed out the night before on the interior steps of Corinne's house, she discovers that her niece drew a cat's face (whiskers, etc.) on her face.
  • Garrett and Erin try having phone sex from across the country.
  • Erin has a small tattoo on her arm.
  • Garrett wears a fake mustache to go along with Box trying to pick up older women (who show cleavage) at their thirtieth graduation anniversary party.
  • JUMP SCENES
  • None.
  • MUSIC (SCARY/TENSE)
  • None.
  • MUSIC (INAPPROPRIATE)
  • None.
  • PROFANITY
  • At least 61 "f" words (9 used sexually, as are terms such as "bang," "hook up" and "laid"), 22 "s" words, 18 slang terms using male genitals ("d*ck" and "packages"), 6 hells, 5 asses (2 used with "hole"), 2 S.O.B.s, 1 damn, 10 uses of "Oh my God," 5 each of "Jesus Christ" and "Oh God," 4 uses of "G-damn," 3 each of "God" and "Jesus" and 1 use each of "Oh Christ" and "Oh Jesus."
  • SEX/NUDITY
  • We see Garrett and his girlfriend kissing, with him saying they'll have to go into the bedroom since Dan is there, but nothing else happens.
  • When Dan talks about having a man-cry, he demonstrates by sobbing with his head down but slightly moving up and down. In response, Box says that looks like he's sucking his own "d*ck" and then makes the same motion on himself (head up and down, mouth open), asking how that looks. Dan then says that when he sucks his own "d*ck," he puts his leg over his back (or something along those lines), prompting Box to ask Dan if he really sucks his own "d*ck" and Dan says he does.
  • When her coworker points out some younger guys at a bar, Erin says she has no intention of getting date raped.
  • Erin spots Garrett's "Top Gun" poster, etc., prompting him to joke that he likes all homoerotic fighter pilot movies.
  • Garrett and Erin passionately kiss, but stop when the song "Take My Breath Away" from "Top Gun" starts playing (courtesy of Dan in another room who can hear them and states that he thought it would be fun to be the deejay for their "hook up"). Erin pretends to be upset by this (saying she didn't want him to think she's "slutty"), but then says she doesn't care. They start kissing again and lean down out of the camera shot. The next morning, the camera pans across their clothes on the floor, followed by a view of them in bed (he shirtless with his lower half under the covers, while she's quietly finishing getting dressed). He then jokingly says she can leave her money (for the sex) on the nightstand.
  • As they discuss not wanting to get into a relationship, Garrett tells Erin he just got out of a relationship, and then sheepishly says he won't tell her it was last night (when they just met). She then jokes that she now knows he's a "male whore." Later, Box asks how someone like Garrett can get dumped and "laid" on the same night, and then jokingly says he should eat "d*ck."
  • Garrett and Erin do some kissing during a montage.
  • Erin shows a little cleavage.
  • We first see a head and shoulders shot of Garrett on top of Erin having sex, and then a full body view. Their lower halves are under the sheets and their arms block any views of her breasts, and we see a little bit of movement, but don't hear any related sounds.
  • Garrett pleads for an airport security guard to let him leave his car on the curb for a moment to go after Erin, with the man asking if she has a nice "ass." Garrett says, "Yeah, like the wind," but the guard doesn't know what that means.
  • Tired of Garrett always texting Erin, Box says it's like a vagina has possessed him (Garrett).
  • Corinne tells Erin that Garrett could be out dry humping half of New York. She then confesses that she and Phil dry hump, saying it's intensely erotic and the only way she can "get off." Erin says she doesn't want to imagine that, with Corinne saying she doesn't either, commenting on looking up and seeing Phil slobbering all over her like a dog. Corinne then complains about the way he looks up at her while performing oral sex on her ("going down on you"), as if asking for approval. She then tells Erin (as if talking to Phil) to just "shut up and lick."
  • At the same time that conversation takes place, Box warns Garrett that Erin could be sucking every "d*ck" meaning that when Garrett goes out to see her, it will be like kissing a "blow job factory." Dan then wonders if Garrett can masturbate while involved in a long-distance relationship, with a lot of related talk about that, including in front of others (such as an older woman he helps across the street). There's talk of "crack off," "snap" and "pop" (with Dan saying he doesn't want those latter two words associated with his penis), and Dan mentions that Garrett is into furious masturbation.
  • Corinne warns Erin that Garrett could be back in a New York bar doing shots and dry humping some woman there.
  • Dan mentions Box's "f*ck-it list" (of older women he wants to "bang" before he dies), with Box saying he's not after cougars and that his mustache reminds the older women of the era (the 1970s) of their sexual awakening when he's on top of them. They then joke about Garrett eating lightly to stay trim, but also about his pasty complexion. That prompts Box to say Erin won't "bang" fat dudes but will guys whose faces look like they're covered in "jizz" (semen).
  • We see a full body sideways nude view of Garrett in a spray tan booth, with his hand over his crotch and views of the side of his bare butt.
  • Garrett surprises Erin at her waitressing job, saying he's not going to order any food, but that he has a tip for her. She playfully asks if that's the tip of penis and he says no, but then quickly yes, saying it's twenty percent of his "d*ck."
  • We next see them barging into Corinne's home (where Erin lives), passionately kissing and undressing (we see her in her bra). He then gets on top of her on the dining room table between her legs and starts thrusting, only to be interrupted when Corinne suddenly walks in and turns on the lights (we see the amorous couple fully then, including a view of his bare butt between her legs thrusting, and then a close-up view of his butt including his hand print -- from a tanning booth -- there). It's then revealed that Phil was sitting at the table eating and didn't know what to do since everything happened so quickly. Corinne is mad at him for just sitting there, but he says it was them who were "f*cking."
  • Erin jokingly tells Garrett he could accomplish a quest if he just "showed your balls" (not meant literally).
  • Trying to make small talk and flustered by Erin's handsome coworker, Garrett mentions that moms are important as none of them (meaning Garrett and company) would be around if not for their moms' vaginas.
  • Garrett and Erin do some passionate kissing, and while he has his finger in his mouth licking off cake icing, he states he's curious if Erin and her handsome coworker (but doesn't finish the sentence, although he brings attention to what sucking on his finger looks like), but she says no.
  • Embarrassed about Corinne earlier walking in on him having sex with Erin on the table, Garrett mentions the handprint on his butt (from an earlier tanning booth) was his, and then says the same about that on his genitalia.
  • Erin complains that long distance relationships "suck" and to make it worse, she's so "horny." Damon then playfully/suggestively states there's probably someone around there (meaning himself) who can help her out with that. He later tries to come on to her while she's quite intoxicated, but nothing happens.
  • While intoxicated and responding to a man being mad about her nearly hitting him with a dart in a bar, Erin tells him to "suck my d*ck." Damon tries to step in and say she doesn't really have one, but she says she does, repeats that, jokes with the man that they can "jack-off" together to Transformers, and then tells him that steroid use results in a small "d*ck."
  • Upset about a phone conversation, Garrett hangs up and then shouts, "Why don't you try blowing me next time?" An attractive coworker, who's walking by at that moment, replies, "Okay." He apologizes and comments on how hard long-distance relationships are, so she (in a similar arrangement) tells him the answer is phone sex and lots of it.
  • We next see Garrett and Erin trying to have phone sex, with her not being into it at first and just playing along, saying he's wearing red lace panties, garters and such when he asks. She then asks what he's wearing and he asks her what's sexy. She replies boxers, and he asks if she means the kind Marky Mark wore. She enthusiastically replies yes, and that if he even just says Marky Mark "I'll f*cking come." Garrett mentions he's "horny" and she says she's touching herself right now, especially in the wet parts. They then use the "f" word sexually several times, and he mentions he wants to "come" on her, but she tells him to do so on the towel next to him. By now, both are masturbating (hand movement under their respective sheets) and are aroused (with additional, sexually explicit talk including about people watching them "f*cking"), but the story they're making up on the fly gets messed up and they don't finish. He then looks under his covers (we don't see anything) and mentions he didn't believe in "blue balls," but that he has quite a bit of "veinage" right now and that he will tighten his vice grip on his "d*ck." Dan, who was listening to Garrett's side through the wall then comments on liking the airplane part of their fantasy talk.
  • Erin and Garrett make out while seated on a bed, but her news that she might be taking a job in San Francisco ruins the mood for him (as she hadn't told him about applying or interviewing for it), and nothing else happens.
  • While in a bar, Dan states he might get "laid" by one of the ladies he's eyeing, but they all say no or shake their heads.
  • Garrett's attractive coworker shows a lot of cleavage in a bar. Later, when Erin enters Garrett's apartment, she catches sight of this women wrapped in just a sheet and thinks the worst, but then sees Dan (in a robe) follow her into the bathroom as he states that was the best sex.
  • After saying she's checking out guys' "packages" in a bar, Erin's intoxicated friend grabs her phone and tells Garrett that Erin will meet some guy in the bar, make out, and have a baby with him.
  • We see Erin in a shower when Garrett walks into the bathroom (clothed, as he's just arrived). When she says she's decided to move to New York to be with him, he gets into the shower with her and they kiss (he's still clothed and she's still nude, but we don't see anything explicit).
  • Corinne warns Garrett that if he breaks Erin's heart she (Corinne) will "cut your balls off."
  • Garrett wears a fake mustache to go along with Box trying to pick up older women (who show cleavage) at their thirtieth graduation anniversary party. Box mentions a one-night fling with one being like riding a horse down the Grand Canyon and then saying goodbye.
  • Garrett and Erin do some kissing at a club. When they return to Corinne's home, they hear sexual noises, turn on the lights, and find Phil "dry humping" Corinne on top of the dining room table.
  • SMOKING
  • None.
  • TENSE FAMILY SCENES
  • None.
  • TOPICS TO TALK ABOUT
  • Long distance relationships.
  • One-night stands, and how they sometimes turn into something more.
  • Guys being confused by what girls tell them (in the film, Garrett's girlfriend has told him she doesn't want a birthday gift, but is then upset when he doesn't get her anything).
  • We hear that Garrett never fully commits to any of his relationships.
  • Phil and another man get on Garrett's case for putting pressure on them to behave romantically around their wives (like Garrett is doing for Erin).
  • The shrinking newspaper industry.
  • The recording industry.
  • VIOLENCE
  • Garrett's girlfriend storms out of his place, accidentally opening the door hard into his face.
  • Erin stubs her toe/foot on something in the newsroom.
  • An announcer in a bar is lightly shocked by a microphone when it touches her face.
  • Tired of Garrett always texting Erin, Box takes his phone, puts it on the driving range mat, and then hits it with his golf club (like a golf ball).



  • Reviewed August 9, 2010 / Posted September 3, 2010

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